John 8:1-11 New Living Translation
1Jesus returned to the Mount of Olives, 2but early the next morning he was back again at the Temple. A crowd soon gathered, and he sat down and taught them. 3As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd. 4“Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?” 6They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger. 7They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” 8Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust. 9When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman. 10Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?” 11“No, Lord,” she said. And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”
Most of us are familiar with the word sympathy. At its simplest, sympathy means sharing in someone else’s sadness or pain—usually because we’ve been through something similar ourselves. Empathy, though closely related, is a little different. Empathy is the ability to understand and step into another person’s feelings even when we haven’t lived their experience.
Sympathy often comes naturally when we can say, “I’ve been there.” Empathy, on the other hand, usually requires more effort. It doesn’t always come easily, and not everyone has learned how to practice it well. But if we hope to live faithfully in relationships—especially with people we don’t always agree with—then empathy is a skill worth cultivating.
One of the clearest ways we show empathy is by truly listening. When we listen well, we communicate love and respect. We begin to understand not just what people believe, but why they believe it. In these moments, the goal isn’t to win an argument or prove a point, but to value the person in front of us.
I’ve found that learning someone’s story often changes the way I see them. It slows my tendency to judge too quickly. Most people arrive at their beliefs and convictions through a lifetime of experiences—some life-giving, others deeply painful. When we take even a few moments to step into someone else’s world, judgment often gives way to understanding.
Today’s Gospel reading places law and love side by side. The crowd that brought the woman to Jesus came armed with the law—harsh, heavy-handed, and without mercy. They were quick to condemn, and noticeably silent about the man involved. “The law of Moses says stone her,” they insisted.
Jesus responds not by ignoring the law, but by exposing how it’s being interpreted and applied. With compassion and truth, Jesus challenges the women's accusers: “Let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone.” One by one, they walk away. And when Jesus speaks to the woman, his words are not condemnation, but grace and challenge: “Go, and sin no more.”
Empathy lies at the heart of healthy relationships. It helps us see people as more than their mistakes, understand perspectives different from our own, and, most importantly, reflect Jesus in the way we live and love one another.
Let's Pray
Lord, give me the wisdom to notice the good in everyone I meet. Bless me with empathy to understand their life circumstances and respect them enough to offer caring support, sharing God’s love with kindness. Help me see the moments where I can stand beside others, as a true friend. Amen.












